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Insights for Powerful Readings & Spirit Talk

It’s the New Year! For years my family and I have given each other in depth New Year readings for the coming year. It’s neat to see what actually aligns, occurs and what takes years or months to evolve. Between the healing and intuitive work that I do, along with our own family traditions, I have learned there’s a knack to asking the “right questions” in the “right way.” I wanted to share a few insights in regards to talking to spirit and/or asking questions during readings.



Be Empowered!


Firstly and most importantly, always ensure your questions are asked in an empowering way. Spirit does have a lot of answers and guidance. However you can’t always easily access it in the physical. Not surprisingly, this is because spirit is energy and there’s a heck of a lot they don’t know about physical life. This includes even our ancestors that have lived in the physical for a while and left. In their passing they lost touch with what it was like to be living in the denseness that is the physical.


It is empowering to approach the reading and/or talking to spirit as you would when meeting someone new or having a conversation with another human. You are curious about their insights, their wisdom…but know not all of it may align with you or the practicality of your own unique lifestyle. You’re being inquisitive while listening with an open heart for the answers as you weed through what fits you. Many people approach readings with the idea that spirit should know all and what is said is gospel. With this approach, all power is handed over to spirit. Remember spirit knows all about the spiritual world, but sometimes that don’t mean jack poop here in the physical!


Empowerment comes through co-scripting with spirit.

Spirit is Energy!


The spiritual world is an energetic one. It’s constantly ebbing, flowing, changing, and ADAPTING… As a result, it can seem very chaotic! However, take your understanding a step further and realize that everything HAS energy, IS energy and IS adjusting and/or adapting continually. Know your whole reality is in a continuous state of energetic flux. This includes you!


Knowing this, gives space for that truth! Not just in the obvious, as “the future could change!” But also in the way you ask questions.

If the focus of your reading or meditation is to know if you will find financial freedom, don’t ask, “Will I find financial freedom?” Instead ask, “What pathways, choices or growth can I access to make financial freedom a reality?”


And then be prepared for the answer!


You will receive gold when you ask questions this way! Most people have a knowing that if they ask the question in this manner, they wont get the answer they want. Most want just a simple “yes!” Instead, if you ask in the way that I suggested, you will get an honest but more complex answer. You will receive an answer that leaves you with homework and responsibility; you will receive an empowered answer where you work with spirit, not expecting spirit to change things without you making changes as well.


You will be shown a pathway to your “yes” or “no” answer. In this way, you are co-scripting your reality with spirit.

Understand the spiritual paradigm!


In my experience, when spirit or even energy around an individual starts looking really good and positive there are about to be major shifts physically. Sometimes what spirit sees as positive is not what we feel or experience physically as positive.


Spirit has a tendency to see the bigger picture in terms of patterns. They know traumatic human experiences can oftentimes lead to great growth, change, movement and healing. Tragic human experiences on a collective can lead to large-scale vibrational shifts or moments of ascension.


You want to keep this in mind as you ask questions and/or others relay information to you.


Spirit may urge you to take certain steps or to move in certain ways but this isn’t always the easiest pathway in terms of the human experience. It may be the most efficient in terms of growth, but that may include trauma after trauma.


Whenever goals, shifts, moves, or changes are being considered you want to ask questions like, “Will this be a graceful move physically?” “Will this be a tumultuous move physically?” “Is there anything I can do prepare to ensure this shift is graceful?” “Can I ensure this move is appealing from both the spiritual and physical perspective?”


Remove Limiting Beliefs!


I’m not talking about the basic, “is this even real?” I am talking about the ideas of successes and failures. Spirit sees success very differently then humans. Spirit sees failure very different then humans. Both take on many forms. Just as each of us is unique, our spiritual successes and failures are unique to each of us.


For example (in general), from a spiritual perspective, success is viewed as movement forward in your growth, understanding of self and others, and evolution in your feeling of finer emotions such as compassion. From spiritual perspective (in general), failure is denial or refusal to grab onto opportunities for growth. Failure does not mean that spirit gives up on you and throws in the towel. Quite the opposite, Spirit will continue to place opportunities in front of you so that you can be spiritually successful.


It is important to know Spirit will always urge you to choose pathways that encourage growth. There are moments in your physical life where it is best to rest and in these moments your request spirit support in doing so.


Oftentimes we enter a reading or meditation wanting clear steps or yes/ no answers; but from spirit’s point of view there are thousands answers and tons of grey areas in between.

Approach the reading with an open view of what success and failure is. Think about goals verses answers.

Have fun!


And finally, bring in the fun and humor! Spirit has most movement within your reading or spiritual conversations when you are curious, open and in play. This does not mean you shouldn’t set boundaries, use discernment or ask serious questions. However, being playful with spirit allows the creative energies and imagination to flow, which adds your own little spice to spirits energy and messages. It helps create a loving environment and true co-scription.


Much Love & Light,

Leila


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