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The Unloading Saga: Shadow Masculine and Feminine Energies on the Grid

By Leila Briggs


In the grand cosmic circus of life, the interplay between masculine and feminine energies seems to be taking center stage—especially when viewed from a grid perspective. For well over a year, we've been tracking these movements in our community grid meetings. And now? The spotlight has swiveled to the shadowy underbelly of these forces—what I affectionately call The Unloading Saga. Trust me, it’s as dramatic as it sounds (cue spiritual popcorn flying everywhere).



Shadow Masculine: The Great Emotional Dump

Let’s be real: the shadow masculine has either overdosed on espresso or hit a cosmic pressure point, because it’s unloading like there’s no tomorrow. This energy isn’t evil—it’s simply in desperate need of healing, therapy, and maybe a long nap.


The misuse and misunderstanding of fear, anger, and, more critically, control are classic shadow masculine traits. These suppressed wounds are bubbling up and spilling over into both the spiritual and physical, forcing the collective to face the shadow masculine's long-ignored wounds. It may feel like everything’s unraveling faster than a bargain-bin Christmas sweater, (by the way, I have a new one with cats I plan to where to our December grid meeting) but what’s really happening is a spotlight is being cast on core blockages—those foundational wounds that have quietly hindered true growth and momentum in the past.


A Purpose Behind the Drama

Before you run for the spiritual hills with the word shadow, take a breath: shadow work isn’t punishment—it’s invitation.


The shadow masculine doesn’t seek destruction. It seeks healing. At its highest potential, it teaches us how to transform fear into conscious action, anger into protective love, and control into clear, loving boundaries. Boundaries that care not just for the self, but for the entire community.


That said, if ignored, this energy will take the path of destruction—like a toddler throwing a tantrum when their needs go unmet. These intense emotions are distorted echoes of love, screaming to be seen, heard, and re-integrated by any means necessary.


The Feminine Duet: Fierce, Focused, and Finally Vocal

Meanwhile, the shadow and divine feminine are showing up with Buffy Summers—level focus and clipboard in hand. Their mission? To hold space for masculine healing while redirecting energy toward legacy and children—both literal and metaphorical.


The shadow feminine has walked through the swampy depths of grief, while the divine feminine has wrestled with the disorientation of over-giving. Together, they emerge maternal, fierce, and laser-focused.


They’re done with silence. They’re done with waiting. Their unified voice says: “No more neglect. No more hiding.” And to the masculine energies, they proclaim: “It’s time to face your reflection and stop hiding behind feminine creation.”


This duet isn’t here to appease. They’re here to protect.

The Divine Masculine: The Quiet Fist

The divine masculine often works quietly—focused, steady, committed to purpose. But even he has a blind spot.


In his effort to serve everyone, he has drawn deeply from feminine creative power, often without reciprocal clarity or communication. This absence of self-expression—this failure to own desire—creates unacknowledged weak points.


Now, with the shadow masculine throwing its cosmic tantrum, the divine masculine is being called out. Historically, he has fought the shadow, choosing war over introspection. (Much like Archangel Michael forever fights the great battle of the snake as depicted time and time again throughout history and religion.)


The question now looms: Will the divine masculine do it again? Or… will he change the script?

Will he recognize that the shadow is not separate, but formed in his own image? Will he see that the chaos is not external, but the loud echo of his unhealed parts?


This moment calls for radical self-awareness. It calls for his OWN alchemy rather then the alchemy of his female counterpart.


Riding the Cosmic Tilt-a-Whirl

If you’ve felt like you’ve been navigating a blindfolded obstacle course the last few years—you’re not alone. These energies are intense, fast, and dizzying. But beneath the chaos lies transformation.


We’re shedding outdated roles. We’re confronting unconscious patterns. We’re learning to live, lead, and love with conscious intent.


That doesn’t mean it’s easy—or fun. But it is purposeful. It can lead us somewhere new.

Now’s the time to get radically honest with your story, your shadows, and your soul’s intentions. Let love—especially the gritty, uncomfortable kind—be your guide. Own your piece of the energetic puzzle. In doing so, you help heal yourself, your family, your community, and the collective.


In Closing: Keep Your Soul Seatbelt Buckled

Shadow work may not be glamorous, but it’s where the magic begins.


So, hold fast to your truth. Keep your discernment sharp. And don’t forget to laugh at the absurdity of it all every now and again. Because if there’s one thing the universe loves more than growth, it’s growth with flair.


Until the next cosmic plot twist—stay curious, stay open, and don’t be afraid to converse with the shadows. They might just have something brilliant to say.




4 Comments


I’m impressed. This was brilliantly expressed and will truly give others an understanding of the dynamics of these energies

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Aw shucks! It's almost like you're my biggest fan or something?! I'm impressed by you! 💜

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Blythe
Blythe
Jun 02

So beautifully written 💜 thank you for sharing!

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Thankyou!

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